"Just What Can A Professional Salesman Teach You In Your Relationship"
By Cucan Pemo

You may not know this, but do you know that whatever it is
that you hold a strong belief on - whether you realize it or
not, whether consciously or subconscoiusly - how your
environment will be, how people will react and respond to
you, will exactly be THAT which will support what YOU
believe to be true?

As within, so without.

If you are always having conflicts, disagreements, and
fights with the love of your life, and you keep wondering why
you have to face such a difficult sitaution in your love life or
relationship, there is a reason for all these happening!

Do you know how your reality in life and in your relationship
life comes about? They do not come about by chance! You
see, you are the one who conducts the orchestra. You and
your partner are playing a piece of music together; and both
of you could have been playing the same piece of music
together for so long that you never even realize it. The situation
or circumstance in your relationship life comes about because
you have intend "your piece of music" to be that way. If you
do not change the way you play the music, the same circumstance
or situation in your relationship or marriage life will always
appear the same to you, since it matches your beliefs and vibration.
The evidence and proofs (that YOU want to see) will start to
spring up from everywhere around you, so that you'll feel that
it feels right things are the way they are right now.

De-hypnotize yourself now!

Here is the story of a salesman from "Zero Resistance Selling"
and his story will open up your eyes and your mind to seeking a
creative solution for yourself if you like to make a re-connection
with your partner or spouse and make love work for you again.

Once a young salesman cornered a professional
salesman after a seminar, to complain passionately
about the executive he had to deal with at one of his
key accounts.

"Everytime I go to him with a new product, a new idea,
a better way of doing things," he said, "he instantly
shoots it down or brushes me off. How am I ever goig
to expand this account's value if I can't even get my
ideas listened to? There's just no point even telling
this guy about anything new."

I asked,"How do you usually approach this fellow with
your ideas?" I listened as the salesman described
when and how he went to this customer with new products
or ideas. He described what he said and what the client
said.

"Does it always happen like that?" I inquired.

"Absolutely," the salesman said. "It's as if there was
a script and we each read out parts."

"It might as well be," I told him. "As long as you
make the same first move, he is going to make the same
second move. You and he are having the same chess match
over and over again. Because you are frustrated with
this client, you keep approaching him exactly the same
way, just waiting for his unsatisfactory response. And
you get it.

Let me tell you what a person with the habit of
optimistic response might do.

First, he would STOP doing the same thing over
and over.

Second, he would know two things in his heart: one, that
this person can be reached, interested, opened up, even
inspired - because EVERY human being can be!

Third, he would keep trying different approaches until
one proved effective."

If whatever methods or approaches you are making is not
working for you to make that connection again, STOP using
the same unproductive approaches over and over again.

Second, realise that EVERY human beings can be inspired and
motivated. Make the efforts to find out what motivates your
partner or your spouse, NOW. Remember that what motivates
him/her years ago might not be the same as of TODAY. But one
truth about human nature stays the same throughout
centuries. Everyone of us needs a little uplifting every now
and then.

Third, if that salesman comes up to me and all he wants to
talk about is himself and how good his products are, I WILL
stop listening. You see, I'm sick of listening to sales pitch.

Think about this, if all you want to do is to come up to me
and talk about why YOU are needed by me and why
YOU should be staying by my side, even "brainstorming"
with me why I am wrong and why you are right, please
go away.

Truth is, I'm sick of listening to the same old things over
and over again. Do you have anything better and
more refreshing to do and say THAT WILL UPLIFT MY
SPIRIT?

Apply these insights into your life and your relationship,
and I can assure you, you can be on your way making relationship
and love work for you again.

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